How To Get A Girl’s Attention (Make Her Notice You!) Have you ever wondered how to get a girl’s attention at a party or how to get a girl to notice you at work?
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How To Get A Girl’s Attention (Make Her Notice You!)
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today’s video and article are on how to get a girl’s attention (make her notice you!)
Have you ever been in a situation where you notice someone really cute, and you want her to notice you too, but you don’t know how to get her to notice you? 🤔
Or maybe, you get her attention initially, and then the relationship starts to not go so good, and then pretty soon she ghosts you?
If that is you, you are in the right place. I’m going to be teaching you 4 steps to getting her attention.
The last step is how to keep her attention, so make sure you read to the end so you don’t miss that very important piece. Because it’s no good to get her attention if you’re just going to lose it, right?
I can’t wait to share these tips with you. Before we dive into those, if this is your first time reading one of my articles, welcome! 👋 My name is Melannie. I’m a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to find, attract, and keep the girl of your dreams. The best part is as a certified coach, I never teach you relationship mind games or tricks that frankly don’t work.
Is This Your Dream Girl?
Okay, for just a second, I want you to imagine your dream girl. Imagine what she looks like. You know the type of girl I’m talking about.
She gives you those butterflies in your stomach, and when you think about her, you can’t help but just smile all over. You know the type of girl I’m talking about, right?
😏 Let’s pretend that you are going on your first date with your dream girl. Exciting, huh?
So you’ve already asked her out, and she said yes, and you’ve been texting back and forth a little bit, and you are even more excited to see her than you were before you asked her out.
And you didn’t think it was possible, but you’re starting to be even more attracted to her as you’ve been texting her.
Then it’s time for your date, and you go to pick her up, or maybe you meet her there. And when you see her, she kind of takes your breath away a little bit. 🤩
She looks so gorgeous from head to toe. Her hair, what she’s wearing, she looks amazing, right?
Now your date starts, and you start talking and having fun, and you notice that you feel really relaxed when you’re around her.
You’re feeling even more attracted to her than before, and you’re feeling super confident and super masculine when you’re around her. It’s an amazing feeling, right?
That’s the kind of feeling your dream girl gives you. And that’s the kind of woman you want, right? ✅ That’s your dream girl.
Basically, you have the time of your life, and you cannot wait for another date.
You’re texting afterward, she’s letting you know that she’s interested in seeing you again, you’re feeling even more interested in seeing her again, and it was a complete and total success.
That’s the dream scenario, right? That’s how it would be with your dream girl, right? Can you see it in your mind? Do you know what I’m talking about?
The Science Of Your Dream Girl
Here’s a really important question: How did she do that? Why did you feel the way you did with your dream girl?
There’s actually a science behind why you felt that way, and I’m going to explain it to you quickly. 🔬
When she texted you, she knew what to say to make the conversation fun and how to make you feel encouraged and better when you are around her.
And then when you showed up and you saw her looking so amazing, do you want to know why? She had learned how to do her hair so it looks attractive.
She had learned what outfits look really good on her, what colors look good on her, and because she wanted to dress really nicely for you, she rocked it.
Then, when you were on the date, you felt relaxed when you were around her. You felt masculine and confident and even more attracted to her.
👉 The reason why is through her conversation, she knew how to help you feel relaxed, how to make you feel more masculine, and see her as more feminine.
She learned some basic small talk and conversation skills that made you feel amazing when you were with her.
And then afterward when you were texting, she understood what to say to let you know that she was interested in you and attracted to you and wanted to spend more time with you.
Basically, she learned the skills she needed that made her attractive. These skills are why she is your dream girl. ✅
She has learned the skills she needs to be attractive to you and be the kind of person who you feel amazing around and you want to spend the rest of your life with. She is your dream girl because of these skills.
This means if you want a woman like that, if you want that type of woman, you need to have the masculine equivalent of those skills.
This is what I teach in my program, and this is why my clients can see such amazing results and see them so quickly.
We are going to be talking about some of the skills you need right now. These are the skills that allow you to get her attention and get her to notice you.
How To Get A Girl’s Attention (Make Her Notice You!) Step 1 – The Right Mindset
So how to get a girl’s attention step number one. This is all about your mindset and being prepared before you’re in the situation. 💡
The last thing you want is to figure out how to get her attention when you’re standing right in front of her. It’s not going to work very well.
Instead, you want to go in with the right mindset so you are a boss at this, so you rock this, so you feel comfortable and confident.
Just like the secret to winning a football game is to be in the right mindset, the secret to getting her attention and getting her to notice you is being in the right mindset. 👈
Now, some of the ways I teach my clients to do this are you want to make sure you’re feeling confident. You deserve to feel confident, right? It just feels better to feel confident.
When you apply the simple skills that allow you to be a confident person, that’s how you stay in that confident mindset all the time.
Another thing is to remember to keep things in perspective. The fear of rejection is real. Everyone has it. But when you keep things in perspective, that’s how you’re able to not let it hold you back anymore.
And the last thing I’m going to mention to help you with that mindset is to make sure you have an understanding of what you’re going to say and how to interact with her before you’re in that situation.
Just like we just talked about above, you felt amazing when you were around her because it was automatic and natural for her to talk to you and flirt with you. ➡️ She just understood how to do it.
Again, the last thing you want is to try and figure out how to flirt with her when you’re standing in front of her. That’s going to lead to disaster. So just make sure you have that understanding upfront.
That is how you rock it. That’s how you get in the mindset so that you can get her attention very easily and very quickly. Make sense? Are you seeing why this is important?
Step 2 – Be Prepared In The Moment
Step number two is for when you’re in the same area with her. You haven’t talked to her yet, but you’re in the right mindset, you’re in the same area, and you can see her.
The things I teach my clients that allow them to get their dream girl’s attention at this stage are one, make sure that you are dressed very well.
The way you dress affects how she sees you, and she wants to see you as really attractive. 💡 But it also affects how you feel about yourself.
And if you’re dressed well, you’re going to feel like approaching and flirting and interacting with her.
I’m going to let you in on a little bit of a secret. Most people do not know how to dress to increase their confidence.
If you put your clothes on and don’t feel attractive and confident and masculine then you need to work more on knowing and understanding how to dress to empower.
Another thing I love to teach is body language. 🙌 You want to make sure your body language is friendly, masculine, confident, and open. That’s going to totally get her attention.
You’d be surprised how powerful this is. Your body language will get her attention when it is confident and attractive.
And then you want to make sure you look for signals that she is interested.
If you have not yet seen this video on signs she likes you, you need to watch it. It’s going to blow your mind. Women pursue men, it just looks different from how men pursue women.
👉 You want to look for the signals that she’s interested in you because that’s what lets you know, “Oh, it’s safe to approach her.“
And then you want to look for easy and natural ways to connect with her, to approach her, and to talk to her.
Pursuing Your Dream Girl Is What Makes Her Notice You
If you watched this video (This Makes A Woman Think About You Non-Stop), you know that one of the things that attract women to you is when you pursue her.
As a matter of fact, if you don’t pursue her, it destroys the attraction. But if instead, you do pursue, it skyrockets the attraction.
Do not wait for her to approach you. ❌ A classy high-quality woman will never approach because it will destroy the attraction. After seeing the signals she wants you to approach her, do so and talk to her.
One of my favorite things that I teach my clients in my program is how to create a conversation out of thin air and naturally talk to her and create fun small talk no matter where you are or what you are doing.
My clients who go through my program also learn how to approach her naturally and really increase her attraction for them while they do this. ✅
To learn more about my program, what I teach, and why it works, I have a free masterclass for you where you’re going to learn the same strategies I teach in my paid program and learn more about my program.
If you want in on these secrets, if you want to know all the secrets I share with my clients that get them the results they are getting, make sure you watch my free masterclass.
My program is for men who want a good woman, and they’re tired of trying to figure it out on their own. If that’s you, make sure you give it a watch.
Step 3 – Learn How To Interact With Her Effectively
Okay, let’s move on to step number three. And this is how you actually interact with your dream girl. 👉 Now it’s time to approach.
You want to focus on increasing her attraction for you. One way you do this is by flirting. And by flirting, I don’t mean the push-pull, hot and cold, mind game nonsense because that does not actually work.
Instead, you want to make her feel even more amazing when she’s with you by making the conversation fun and interesting.
While you’re here flirting with her, chatting with her, having a good time, you want to make sure you understand how to ask her out to get that yes instead of a no. 💡
Again, this is something I teach in my program, so make sure you watch my masterclass if that’s something you would like to learn more about.
I’m going to let you in on a huge secret. Are you paying close attention? One of the biggest reasons why men get turned down when she really wants to say yes is what they ask her to do on the date.
Yes, where you take her or what you do on the date has the power to cause her to say no instead of yes.
If she feels uncomfortable for any reason, she’s going to say no. That little thing can be the whole reason she rejects you. 😬
If you have been through my program, remember that you have access to my guide 59 Best Date Ideas, so make sure you are taking advantage of that.
Step 4 – Learn How To Keep Her
Okay, we are to our fourth step, which is to learn how to keep her.
Have you ever been in that situation where you met this girl, you see signals that she’s interested in you, and then all of a sudden it starts to not go so good, and then she ghosts you?
Or maybe she tells you, “I think we’d be better as friends.” That’s painful, right? ❌ Or maybe, you even date for a couple of months, and then she breaks up. Why does that happen?
Here’s what you need to understand: God made men and women differently. That makes sense, right? Women have different needs than men do, and they think differently than men do.
If a woman is attracted to a man initially, once she gets to know him better, if she sees that he does not have the traits that she needs to have in a husband, she’s not interested anymore, she’s done, she moves on.
Even if a man is very physically attractive and may be very successful, but socially he comes across as kind of awkward or she feels awkward when she’s around him, she moves on.
This also happens if he comes across as arrogant or has no clue how to create and maintain a healthy relationship. 😬 That’s not what she’s looking for in a partner, so she moves on.
It looks to her like a bad bet, and she’s not going to risk a bad bet. You wouldn’t risk a bad bet when it comes to something as big as a lifelong relationship, right? Well, your dream girl is not going to either.
That just makes sense, doesn’t it? The way I teach my clients to prevent this so that you stop having this vicious rejection cycle going is you need to understand the traits that a woman is looking for in a man.
You need to know what is actually important to her. And then, as you turn those things into habits, now you have the traits that God made women need in a partner. Which is really exciting, right?
Can you imagine just knowing that you had all the traits your dream girl was looking for in a man because that’s the way God made her? ✅
The best part is you get to stay true to who you are as a person. This is never about changing your personality. Only mind games will do that for you.
Instead, if you take the traits women are looking for and turn them into habits, you keep your personality, stay true to who you are, and become absolutely irresistible to your dream girl.
How To Get A Girl’s Attention (Make Her Notice You!) – What’s Next?
So that is how to get a girl’s attention and make her notice you. That’s exciting, right?
💬 If you’re excited about this and committed to getting your dream girl and showing her that you are her dream man, comment “dream girl” in the comments below.
It’s kind of like an affirmation or a battle cry. You can do this, my friend, so leave it in the comments.
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